I am sure many have heard of The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Well, partly for fun and partly to confirm my guess, I let Sarah take the love language quiz for children.
Her love language scores are:
4 Words of Affirmation
8 Quality Time
6 Receiving Gifts
0 Acts of Service
2 Physical Touch
I usually take such quizzes with a pinch of salt, but the result does corroborate what I know of her. She is always asking us to spend time with her and do things with her. Ever since N came, my time with her has greatly reduced, mainly because N is extremely attached to me. I know she has felt a bit neglected, but the beautiful thing about S is that she does not bear any resentment towards her brother for taking my time away from her. I guess after 2 years, she has now learnt to adapt. Nevertheless, I will need to make an effort to spend 1-to-1 time with her, or at the very least, shower her with more attention and love.
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